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 Live in present How many of you are regretting your  past?   How many of you are sick of your present? And how many of you are worried of your future? I don't know how many of you are dealing with all these questions but if  you are dealing with these questions then let me start with the topic, If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present. Because your present is your battlefield, this is the only time where you can make all undone things, done for you.  Even swami Vivekananda has once said  "Bury your past, infinite future is in front of you".  If you will  remain trapped in your past, and will remain worried for your future, then nothing will work satisfactorily for you. Your present is everything,Now why I am saying this Because as you know meaning of 'present' is "existing or happening now".so if we will only care for the things that are existing ...

                                 Self Respect As Confucius said "respect yourself and others will respect you" . And this quote holds a deep meaning in our lives. Self respect is a priceless asset of one's life. It is an experience of being deserving and feeling worthy as a human being. Self-respect teaches us to honor our values and ethics in life . Self respect is a powerful force that allows us to perceive the approach of self-approval waiting for none to appreciate our existence, it inspires us to proceed on our own. All human beings are blessed with certain instinctive values and potentials in life. Due to lack of knowledge, we often fail to identify our own qualities and therefore, feel degraded. And as John Didion quoted "The willingness to accept responsibility for one's own life is the source from which self-respect springs". Hence if you really want to know who you are, forget every...

Out of comfort zone We all have our comfort zone in which we work willingly but what happens when we are allowed to work out of our comfort zone?? Have you ever tried to ponder over this thing??. We become so uncomfortable that we start to lose all our senses to work. Now why does this happen??. This happens because of our programming of mind, our mindset is framed such that our mind thinks that, it can't work out of it's comfort zone. We have done our upbringing in our comfort zone and thus we have become habitual of living in it. But don't you think that, it's wrong? Yes, it's wrong. We have to learn how to work out of our comfort zone because life will offer us so much and that so much would not necessarily mean to fall inside our comfort zone. Hence just try to perform out of the box. Once you 'll learn how to do that ,than everything will start to follow you and you will become the master in achieving things.

Smart work vs Hard Work We all have heard this at any point in our life that "Hard work is the key to success". But is it really so, i don't think it works to the full extent. I think smart work is the real key to success. Though hard work is important in life but it alone can't make us successful. For instance: A rickshaw puller works really hard in his life, Do you think he is successful, answer is probably no. Hence it is clear that, Hard work alone won't work, we need to work smartly in order to get success. We should need to find a smart way in order to solve problems of our life, crack an entrance exam, to achieve excellence in our job and to get perfection in our life. Thus, I can't say who wins between smart  work and hard work but yes, it's not wrong to say that hard work can be substituted by smart work in order to get success , quick and effective results.

Bondage:The Ultimate Evil Ya, the ultimate evil in life is Bondage. It can be Material Bondage, Spiritual Bondage, Bondage with people and blah blah.. ,.The root cause of all sufferings is bondage, so we should try to free ourselves from all kinds of Bondage. Now , when I am saying to be free from Bondage, I literally do not mean to forget about all the relations and connections. What I mean, is we should never let them dominate us. Freedom is the ultimate happiness in life, when you are free to do whatever you want that is the real happiness in life. And trust me, that absolute freedom can be achieved only when you won't let your bonds to over-power you. Many times in order to get absolute freedom, we have to sacrifice many things, many people and many relationships which is not an easy task.  That's why, there is no doubt, you should have bonds but don't let the bondage kill your freedom.  As freedom to express you, your views is first priority.  Hence live...

                            The Biggest Teacher: Experience Well, there are many teachers in our life, the good one , the bad one and the close one but the biggest teacher in our life is experience. Once you experienced a thing, trust me you are not going to forget it throughout your life. Experience of a thing gives long lasting learning. For instance: you can't learn swimming just reading the procedures and rules of how to do swimming, even having a good instructor won't help you much. You can learn it only when you try it and make efforts to swim. Once you have the experience of a thing then a long lasting learning of that thing itself takes place. You might have seen this, a highly educated person can easily be defeated by a highly experienced person. His experience is his power. Hence for deeply learning a thing, never be afraid of experiencing it. Life is a journey, keep experiencing and keep learning. ...

Relationships are like bank accounts. Wondering about relationships, in my point of view they are like bank accounts. If you make investment in relationships then only , you get return. Briefly speaking, relationships are like emotional bank accounts. People who are not able to manage and maintain their emotional bank account, are always found struggling with their lives and situations. Therefore, it is very important to follow certain  methods in order to keep your relationship account healthy. But before discussing those methods, it is very important to understand what are deposits and withdrawals in a relationship bank account.  Deposits are actions, like spending quality time together, offering sincere praise, listening and talking honestly with each other, and sharing positive experiences together. Withdrawals are holding boundaries, saying “no”, and offering constructive feedback when needed. So, when it comes to discuss about methods in order to maintain relat...

Never quit- power of determination Someone has rightly said that "if you are not willing to learn than nothing can help you but if you are determined to learn than nothing can stop you" .To succeed in life , you need the quality of determination. Success doesn't come your way naturally, you need to work hard for it.  You know, people quit at the last stage  when they were so close to success. There are many reasons behind , which force people to quit. A few of them are: 1. L ack of self- belief. It can be synonymous to lack of self confidence. People lose their self confidence and start to feel so low, that they nearly start to shatter and quit. 2.  Negative emotions surround them . Being riddled with negative emotions, people lose their determination and often quit. 3. F ears and excuses. The fears of rejection, responsibility, success, and failure force people to make certain excuses. And by virtue of those silly excuses peo...

                                                                                    What is Success? Well, it has different meanings to different people.To have money and luxurious lifestyle, it can be success for many while for some cracking an entrance exam, getting good marks, getting a job, getting their beloved partner and other stuffs can be a success. Now, again the question arises what is success in true sense? Well, as per my knowledge and understanding , success is all about action in right direction. To elaborate more, it's not having only more money but it is having time for yourself, freedom and satisfaction in life. So, let me explain all these points in details 1 . It's not having only more money Well, success can never be proportional to money...

 success has no shortcuts. Well , you all might have heard of the famous French proverb "Rome wasn't built in a day." This proverb clearly states that good things takes time and success can't be achieved very early or in one shot. Truely, there are no shortcuts to success. Okay , can you reach at the top stair without climbing the below ones. Answer is probably no. Then how can we dream of getting success in one go? Nowadays, people have started to use certain so called hacks in order to get success but these hacks won't help much. Shortcuts do not last longer.M any people think smart work as a shortcut to success but it should not be misunderstood as shortcut to success. We all love to hear stories of instant success and want instant success in our life which is not possible in any way. A fat person can't get slim just by sitting. He has to do workout for that. Shortcuts taken in this case will lead to failure. Success doesn't ...

                 Practice leads to Perfection. Well, I have heard this proverb many times "Practice makes a man perfect".  Earlier, I won't believe in this but when I have experienced this in my life, I realized that i was wrong earlier. Truly, practice leads to perfection, as no can be perfect  in all means in life. It doesn't matter how weak you are in doing a certain work, practice will help you to tackle your weakness. See, we are not born with skills. Whatever we have learnt or  earned is here only. When we were children , we needed practice to do each and every small task. We needed practice  to sit, to stand, to walk and even to turn over the side. But we all did it, because we practiced all these things without disappointment. Practice is a part of learning process. Medical science tells us that repeated practice creates channels in your brain. When you repeatedly endeavor in a particular  way,...

         Stop killing Time. Once a guru asked his disciples "What do you think is the most important thing in life" .Then some of the disciples answered 'food', 'water', 'money' and blah blah. Then the most favorite one disciple of guru answered 'time'. He explained that time is the most important thing in anyone's life. And yes, he answered correctly and his guru praised him. So , Don't you think that time is precious like a Diamond? Well, it's true. As the spoken words cannot be taken back similarly the gone time cannot come back. So, have you ever tried to find out the reason why do we waste our time?  We waste our time in doing silly things. Here, is a list of some of those silly things.                                                             A.  Well, nowadays social media is tha...