Live in present

How many of you are regretting your past?  How many of you are sick of your present? And how many of you are worried of your future? I don't know how many of you are dealing with all these questions but if  you are dealing with these questions then let me start with the topic, If you want to be happy, do not dwell in the past, do not worry about the future, focus on living fully in the present.

Because your present is your battlefield, this is the only time where you can make all undone things, done for you. Even swami Vivekananda has once said "Bury your past, infinite future is in front of you". If you will  remain trapped in your past, and will remain worried for your future, then nothing will work satisfactorily for you.

 Your present is everything,Now why I am saying this Because as you know meaning of 'present' is "existing or happening now".so if we will only care for the things that are existing or happening now, then only we will be able to achieve success... And that's the only mantra for success.

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