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Bondage:The Ultimate Evil Ya, the ultimate evil in life is Bondage. It can be Material Bondage, Spiritual Bondage, Bondage with people and blah blah.. ,.The root cause of all sufferings is bondage, so we should try to free ourselves from all kinds of Bondage. Now , when I am saying to be free from Bondage, I literally do not mean to forget about all the relations and connections. What I mean, is we should never let them dominate us. Freedom is the ultimate happiness in life, when you are free to do whatever you want that is the real happiness in life. And trust me, that absolute freedom can be achieved only when you won't let your bonds to over-power you. Many times in order to get absolute freedom, we have to sacrifice many things, many people and many relationships which is not an easy task.  That's why, there is no doubt, you should have bonds but don't let the bondage kill your freedom.  As freedom to express you, your views is first priority.  Hence live...

                            The Biggest Teacher: Experience Well, there are many teachers in our life, the good one , the bad one and the close one but the biggest teacher in our life is experience. Once you experienced a thing, trust me you are not going to forget it throughout your life. Experience of a thing gives long lasting learning. For instance: you can't learn swimming just reading the procedures and rules of how to do swimming, even having a good instructor won't help you much. You can learn it only when you try it and make efforts to swim. Once you have the experience of a thing then a long lasting learning of that thing itself takes place. You might have seen this, a highly educated person can easily be defeated by a highly experienced person. His experience is his power. Hence for deeply learning a thing, never be afraid of experiencing it. Life is a journey, keep experiencing and keep learning. ...

Relationships are like bank accounts. Wondering about relationships, in my point of view they are like bank accounts. If you make investment in relationships then only , you get return. Briefly speaking, relationships are like emotional bank accounts. People who are not able to manage and maintain their emotional bank account, are always found struggling with their lives and situations. Therefore, it is very important to follow certain  methods in order to keep your relationship account healthy. But before discussing those methods, it is very important to understand what are deposits and withdrawals in a relationship bank account.  Deposits are actions, like spending quality time together, offering sincere praise, listening and talking honestly with each other, and sharing positive experiences together. Withdrawals are holding boundaries, saying “no”, and offering constructive feedback when needed. So, when it comes to discuss about methods in order to maintain relat...